9. Get her to perform for you
Men are obsessed with putting in a good performance in bed. And to some extent, this is not a bad thing because you do want to give her sexual pleasure and orgasms. But if you need to be performing for her all the time, then this can be a big turn-off for her. She wants a guy who can also set up situations where she can perform for him.
For example, almost all women love giving blow jobs if the guy can get her thinking about them the right way. And if you can get her to perform for you like this, it’ll be a huge sexual thrill to her. Think about the rush you get from giving her a huge orgasm – this is what she’ll experience if you know how to bypass her inhibitions and get her to perform for you in bed.